Many
people May have heard the phrase as the title of the article above, or we also
have often heard. But if there are those among us who ever make sense of the
phrase? The author tried to make sense of their own feelings and life
experiences of others.
A
mother loved her children more than herself. Imagine! She, your mother,
pregnant for at least nine months and
ten days old. At that time, when she was sleeping you bothered her, where she
sat she often restless, at walking she can shuffle because you’re getting
bigger in her stomach. Unexpectedly you hit her stomach, her body shape which
used to charming without compromise you make in become not dazzle. Her
beautiful clothes from famous fashion designers can no longer be used and must
be replaced with maternity clothes which shape and size was not known.
When
she delivered you, her misery was so horrified, very heart-wrenching pain,
death will likely soon claimed her soul. Once you become a baby and infants,
she was forced to feed you before people shamelessly displaying something along
the life span always protected and hidden, but because of your force to display
to feed you. She, your mother with all existence, raise, maintain and educate
you. Burden borne since pregnant, give birth and raise untill you get married
really cannot be judged or measured, except with a phrase sentence “she, your mother loved you more than
herself”.
What
was expected of a mother from children whom she given birth? The hope, nothing
but happiness of her children and not for herself. But what become the hope of
the mother, today, often changed, turned into a form of miserable and unequaled
suffering for a mother who expected happiness of her chlidren, it come from
behaviour of her own chlid. Not so much news that we heard and read about the
indecent treatment of a child to his biological mother?
- A child exel
his wife’s mother his own home just because of desire to dominate the home and
her mother’s possessions.
- A child
struck his mother to death with a brick just because of money and food.
- A child after
having seized all assets of his biological mother, make her misery by sending
her to the nursing home.
A mother will take a risk of her life for the happiness
of her chlidren. Heaven we interpret as the source of all pleasure and
happiness. So it was no exaggeration to say “Heaven under Feet of Mother”,
because in her life full struggle and suffering for the sake of her children.
Do not
ever put your mother in a assessment based on bad elements, her nagging,
repression, wealth or ugly and behaviour. Whoever she was, she was the mother
who give a birth of you, which shall be loved. Deviate from having loving
mother, seditious consequences. You want to live happy and loving? “Love your mother”.
