FORGET THE PAST

          Nina and Tony are married couple who have been married for 5 years. Before the wedding they underwent a period dating for 5 years, so if it is counted with close relationship between them, the relationship has been for 10 years. Their relationship are classified as very harmonious relationship filled with romantic atmosphere. But there is one thing that really bothers Nina. It is about a secret that has never been told to his husband. Long before he knew Tony, Nina actually had a relationship and had a date with Ferry in fact they had been planning to get married in not too distance future. But once she met Tony, Nina immediately enthralled. Nina secretly was in a relationship with Tony until finally got married and then dumped Ferry. With devastated heart and feeling, Ferry moved to another city to forget his grief. Then after 10 years, Nina heard that,  Ferry returned. Nina has repented and confessed her sins to God before he got married. But he had never met Ferry again. He was confused and wanted to see Ferry and wanted to apologize to her. But when counseling with spritual adviser, he actually advised not to do that because it could be dangerous for her marriage with Tony.

         The evil can take advantage of things like that, on behalf of regret until nostalgia to destroy a happy marriage . By using the mistakes of our past, it tried to trap us. It did mean that cleaning the relationship or apologize to people who had hurt us was not necessary. However, beware. For the case of Nina, it was much more important to focus on her marriage relationship right now than repeated again the same mistake. In marriage life, there may be a story of the past that continue to haunt us.

          However, use wisdom to deal with it. If it needed to be told to the husband, waiting the right time to tell. Even if telling to the husband actually did not change anything, ask God to deliver us from claim of devil.