If you were
starnded on an uninhabited island and you could only bring three things, when
being asked what items do you want to take? A question that have never been
imagined. Answer from each person can vary. Those Choose the objects relating
to their safety (tent, knife, comunication device). Others may choose the
objects related to hobby or comfort (books, musical instruments, TV). The question may be said to be not serious
question. But just for imagining space fun. But from the answer we give, will
be reflect or see things what we like, what we prioritize and what make us feel
safe and comfortable.
Indeed, things like that too often happens in
marriage. Marriage is not an uninhabited island, but marriage is like a long
journey. However, in the journey, we cannot take all things. Either wife or
husband cannot carry all their stuffs. As a whole, the husband and wife may
only take one suitcase for mutual use. What is the content the suitcase? Its
contents are expectations. Before marriage, the husband and wife has a lot of
hope for the marriage. But that hope can often differ from each other. Example, a wife may expect spending time
together every evening in a relaxed and
romantic atmosphere. While the husband can hope to go every evening with his
wife folowing the activities with community. Those simple things can lead to
disappointment.
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