HEAVEN UNDER FEET OF MOTHER

          Many people May have heard the phrase as the title of the article above, or we also have often heard. But if there are those among us who ever make sense of the phrase? The author tried to make sense of their own feelings and life experiences of others. 

          A mother loved her children more than herself. Imagine! She, your mother, pregnant for at least nine  months and ten days old. At that time, when she was sleeping you bothered her, where she sat she often restless, at walking she can shuffle because you’re getting bigger in her stomach. Unexpectedly you hit her stomach, her body shape which used to charming without compromise you make in become not dazzle. Her beautiful clothes from famous fashion designers can no longer be used and must be replaced with maternity clothes which shape and size was not known.

          When she delivered you, her misery was so horrified, very heart-wrenching pain, death will likely soon claimed her soul. Once you become a baby and infants, she was forced to feed you before people shamelessly displaying something along the life span always protected and hidden, but because of your force to display to feed you. She, your mother with all existence, raise, maintain and educate you. Burden borne since pregnant, give birth and raise untill you get married really cannot be judged or measured, except with a phrase sentence “she, your mother loved you more than herself”.

          What was expected of a mother from children whom she given birth? The hope, nothing but happiness of her children and not for herself. But what become the hope of the mother, today, often changed, turned into a form of miserable and unequaled suffering for a mother who expected happiness of her chlidren, it come from behaviour of her own chlid. Not so much news that we heard and read about the indecent treatment of a child to his biological mother?

- A child exel his wife’s mother his own home just because of desire to dominate the home and her mother’s possessions.

- A child struck his mother to death with a brick just because of money and food.

- A child after having seized all assets of his biological mother, make her misery by sending her to the nursing home.

A mother will take a risk of her life for the happiness of her chlidren. Heaven we interpret as the source of all pleasure and happiness. So it was no exaggeration to say “Heaven under Feet of Mother”, because in her life full struggle and suffering for the sake of her children.

          Do not ever put your mother in a assessment based on bad elements, her nagging, repression, wealth or ugly and behaviour. Whoever she was, she was the mother who give a birth of you, which shall be loved. Deviate from having loving mother, seditious consequences. You want to live happy and loving? “Love your mother”.